How To Give The Perfect Blowjob

HOW TO GIVE THE PERFECT BLOW-JOB

Any creative endeavor, Einstein once said, requires one
percent inspiration and 99 percent perspiration. When it comes to
creative fellatio, however, I would reverse the equation-you can
know every technique in the book, but if you're not truly inspired
to suck, truly in love with sucking, you won't have much success.
Nonetheless, there are specific techniques for enhancing the
quality of a blow-job.

Most women enjoy cocksucking, although I've heard a fair
number say they don't. I believe that the latter simply haven't
approached cocksucking with a positive attitude, but have viewed
it as an act geared totally towards male gratification, with
little pleasure to be gained for themselves. Perhaps they've been
with men who imposed cocksucking on them in an insensitive manner.
In any case, nothing could be farther from the truth than the
notion that giving head is a one-way street.

We live in an orally fixated culture: we smoke, overeat and
derive pleasure, consciously or not, through endless forms of oral
stimulation. Psychologists say this fixation stems from a lack of
sufficient breast-feeding in infancy, and sex therapists have
theorized that sucking cock is equivalent to sucking tit. Viewing
in this light, it's obvious that the experience can be enormously
pleasurable for a woman.

Approaching the penis with love and passion is half the
battle. Just as a woman wouldn't want a man to stick his prick into
her pussy and whack away without any foreplay, so too, a blow-job
requires some preliminaries. Kissing and licking other parts of the
body is a good way to begin. one very sexy prelude is to lick and
suck a man's fingers, taking them deep into the throat as you
would his cock, giving him a hint of the pleasure to come. (What's
even sexier is that this can be done almost anywhere-in a
restaurant, the movies, the car, etc.)

Some men like to have their nipples sucked; from there you can
work your way down his chest and belly, lingering at the navel,
then moving downward where his member is no doubt throbbing in
anticipation. I like to touch the penis at this point, rubbing a
finger up and down its length, stroking it as if it were made of
velvet, perhaps flicking my tongue up from the base to the head as
well.

As in all erotic foreplay, while a man may desperately want
instant gratification, prolonged teasing heightens pleasure, so
don't be too hasty, even if he's clawing at your head and guiding
your mouth to his shaft. Spend a while nipping and kissing the area
all around the penis-the groin, thighs, and balls. Most men's balls
are extremely sensitive, and should be approached with care. Cup
them in your hand, lick them, take them gently into your mouth. In
my opinion, there's no sweeter sensation than of heavy gonads
inside my mouth.

A nice technique before actually sucking is to rotate the
tongue around the head of the penis. Another is to flick the tongue
back and forth along the sensitive underside. Rubbing the penis
across your face-especially around the eyes-demonstrates your love
of cock. You can also gently smack the penis to and fro against
your cheeks.

When you finally do take his cock into your mouth, the only
real precaution is to careful with your teeth. While a gentile nip
here and there can be stimulating, teeth can really hurt a penis,
so keep them covered with your lips as you suck.
While skill and technique can induce pleasure, instinct and
enthusiasm go a lot farther than studied methods. With time and
experience, you'll learn what movements pleasure your partner, but
ultimately it's your passion for orgasm that's at the heart of a
great blow-job.

Choosing The Best Positions
Several positions can be taken during cocksucking. The most
obvious is for the man to lie down while the woman kneels or lies
with her head between his legs. This offers the man total
relaxation, and gives the woman complete control over her
movements. Another position is for the man to stand while the woman
kneels on the carpet-when performed before a full length mirror,
this offers a visual treat as well. Another possibility is for the
man to sit on the edge of the bed or sofa while the woman kneels
on the floor. A real turn-on for most men and women is to engage in
cocksucking while watching erotic videos. Although the woman won't
get to see the action on screen, she can hear it, and if
cocksucking is happening in the film, all the better.

Some couples like for the woman to lie down while the man
inserts his prick into her mouth from above. This can be exciting
for both partners, but has its drawback-the woman can't control how
much cock she takes in, and gagging can result.

Which brings us to the practice popularized by Linda Lovelace
in her famous film, Deep Throat." Deep-throating is simply the act
of taking a penis as far down as possible, bypassing the throat
muscles and thus the gag reflex. It can be accomplished by having
the throat utterly relaxed and accepting. Again, far from being a
province of male pleasure, deep-throating can be extremely
satisfying for a woman, as areas that would otherwise never be
touched are stimulated.

Some people have suggested finger exercises to stretch out the
throat muscles, but I think it's more a matter of mood and
attitude. There are times when I've been too tight (or uptight) to
take much cock down my throat, and other times when I felt I could
gobble ten inches with ease. Strange as this may sound, the deepest
throat I have ever gave was after eating a bowl of pesto, which
contains tons of olive oil. The oil apparently lubricated and
softened my throat muscles to the point where my partner was able
to fuck my throat with almost as much force as if he were fucking
my pussy.

Considering The Man's Role
The man's attitude towards receiving a blow-job is as
important as the woman's. Like a man to tease me with his cock-to
turn the tables and pretend it's me who needs to suck, while he's
offering a rare and precious gift. He can do this by fondling his
stiff member close to his partner's face while his stiff member
close to his partner's face while holding her head back by the
hair, letting her have an inch at a time, saying things like, "Just
the head," "Don't be too greedy now, "etc. By the time he "allows"
the woman to suck, she'll usually go at it with increased ardor,
almost gratitude. It's also pleasurable for a man to either stroke
his partner's head or gently pull her hair while she's sucking. He
can also pull on her nipples or tits, rubbing them against his
balls while she sucks.

To Swallow or Not To Swallow?
Some woman enjoy swallowing cum. They like the milky texture,
the pungent tastes and, above all, the excitement of having a cock
explode inside their mouths. Other women are totally repulsed by
it.

I think the question of swallowing is one of individual taste
(pun intended) and should be respected. If a woman doesn't want to
swallow semen, there's no point in forcing the issue. Besides, it
is at least, if not more, exciting to shoot your load on her face
or tits.

One of MY Favorite Experiences
It was with Bob. It was a one night stand, which I find
sometimes makes for the most passionate sex. We were at my place.
We were on the sofa. We did not fully undress. Sex is sometimes
much sexier when you are only half undressed, I releases his dick
form his tight jeans. It was not yet fully erect, making it large
but still semi soft, semi hard. The smell of his crotch rose to my
nostrils and sent sexual chills down my spine. With my long thin
fingers, I reached into his fly and pulled out his balls. they hung
heavy in my hand.

I leaned forward and touched the tip of his penis with my
lips. Pulling back, I drew a thread form the drop of semen that had
come to the tip. Then I leaned forward again and placed my lips
firmly on the tip. He moaned.

His shaft now grew stiffer. Holding it firmly with my hand,
I placed my lips firmly over the tip, and then slid my hand down
so that I could move my lips down, taking his now hard shaft deep
into my mouth. He moaned again.

Now I began pumping my head up and down, working seriously on
his dick. One hand held the base of his shaft, while the other slid
up under his balls, my fingers pressing against the base of his
body where they could feel the pulsations building up inside him.
My head pumped up and down. Then I paused, relaxed my throat,
and took his now huge dick all the way in. He gasped. Now I went
at his member with a vengeance, taking it deep down my throat, then
moving back so the tip was at my lips.

My hand gripped his shaft firmly and followed up and down. My
other hand felt the telltale pulses at the base of his body that
told me he was going to shoot his load. I pressed tightly with my
lips, and took all of his exploding juices deep into my mouth,
swallowing with pleasure.

A Word About Sexually Transmitted Disease
It seems to me that cum-swallowing was more popular ten or
fifteen years ago than today, when many people view semen as a
potential carrier of disease. It still isn't clear whether or not
oral sex is "safe." As with all sexual activities these days, it's
important to know your partner's sexual history before jumping into
the sack.

Believe it or not, even with condoms, a blow-job can still be
satisfying. It may sound like a turn-off, but sucking a rubber-
sheathed dick, while somewhat diminishing sensation, still provides
for visual and psychological excitement. And these days rubbers are
being manufactured in various flavors. The human race has
surmounted all sorts of obstacles on the road to sexual gratification, and where there's a will, passion, lust and love always prevail.

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